How to flirt with a gay guy on text

Things you buy through our links may earn Vox Media a commission. There are flirty texts that demand attention in a cringey way. And then there are the flirty texts that demand attention in a, well, Looney Tunes —wolf-whistle sort of way. How do you get into the latter category?

Something out of the ordinary or just taking someone by surprise. For many of us, crafting a text like this is easier said than done. And yet, you may find yourself wanting to send a terrifying attention-grabbing text of your own. It has to feel authentic. In other words, if typing it is making you want to crawl out of your skin, maybe skip it.

Metselaar shares a similar sentiment. Need some help getting the creative juices flowing? Browse the below ideas from Metselaar and the Cut for flirty texts that will demand attention. Metselaar warns this can sometimes be a tricky, too trickytransition, but, if you still feel the urge to shoot your shot, she offers the following texts:.

More options from the Cut:. From Metselaar:.

10 Seductive Ways to Flirt with Your Gay Partner via Text

You can send a sexy photo. Role-play texts! Ask questions about them! Not too many. From Metselaar …. It has to be used to confirm a date or it expires in 1 hour. Should we try it? These are just ideas to get your wheels spinning a bit. Feel free to take them as your inspiration to craft a text that feels entirely your own.

Lindsey Metselaara dating expert and host of the We Met at Acme podcast. This email will be used to sign into all New York sites. By submitting your email, you agree to our Terms and Privacy Policy and to receive email correspondence from us. Account Profile. Saved for later.

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